Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Random Stories!

So I have a lot of random stories, things about China, and moments that I have not yet shared so I will just put them all together in this post!

Some More Things About China

-Old people here are pretty fit! They are always walking around the neighborhood doing weird exercises, doing tai chi in the mornings, hiking with lots of stairs. Even on the Great Wall there were some old people who were just walking up like it was no big deal. And they usually age pretty well too.

-People here don't seem to have the best dental hygiene. I have seen older people with really gross looking teeth. Even my kindergarten kids have pretty bad teeth. They have cavities all over. We actually even had the dentist come to our school a few days ago. All the kids got their teeth checked and the dentist went over the proper way of brushing teeth.

-Soy Sauce: Is not really a thing in China. Ok so it does exist in China. But it's actually not super common. My coordinators said it is usually only used on fish and just a tiny bit. I'm pretty sure most of the girls in my group use way more soy sauce then anyone actually in China. (I'm not a fan of it myself which is why I was skeptical about Chinese food when I got here but turns out it's not used often)

-I may have talked about how scooters are a big thing here. Lots of people ride scooters, on the roads, on the side walks. They park them on the side walks sometimes, and one day at a noodle shop I saw a man bringing his scooter out of the restaurant. Anyways the funny part is that there will be whole families riding on one scooter! A mom, dad, and a child or two. Sometimes it's just a mom riding a scooter with her baby tied to her chest. Or a dad driving a scooter with the mother sitting behind holding the baby. Or a small child just standing there in the front of the scooter. It looks really dangerous...and it probably is but they do it all the time here and think it is fine.

-There aren't many car accidents here...even though the driving is CRAZY. Seriously the driving is so crazy here, but it doesn't phase me anymore because I am used to it. How is it that the roads are dangerous yet there are actually few accidents?

- If you remember a long time ago I talked about a Foster Home in our neighborhood that we sometimes go visit and play with the kids. Well I found out they have a Facebook page and a blog so if you are interested you should check them out!
https://www.facebook.com/newdaysouth

http://newdayfosterhome.blogspot.com

- You know how the 13th floor of a building in America is unlucky so they just skip it? Similar thing in China with the 4th floor. Apparently it is bad so instead they have floor 1 ,2, 3A , 3B, then floor 5, etc. 

- Lots of Chinese people grow out their pinky nails. Here it is a sign of wealth because being able to grow out a long nail means you don't need to do any manual labor.

-According to my friend Susan, teachers are respected more than parents. Grandparents are at the very top, with teachers in second, then parents.



Stories

-One day I was teaching the game "Sorry" to my kids. Well this one particular kid named Matthew liked it SO MUCH. He was telling the other teachers how he liked it so much and the next day wanted to play it again. We ended up playing it again and he actually won! Matthew is a crazy kid, very VERY hyper and it's hard to get him to pay attention and focus. I have never seen him so excited and focused to do something until the game Sorry. Even one of my students, Linda, comes up to me and says (in perfect English) "Teacher, Matthew really likes to play the sorry game". 

- The day we got back from our Beijing Trip my students asked me at school, "Teacher you go to meiguo?". The words "mei guo" are Chinese for "America". "Mei" means beautiful and "guo" means country. It was so sad! Our kids KNOW that we are leaving soon!!! They kept asking, this time saying "Teacher when you go to America?". I told my student April in 1 month, and she tells me "No...two months!". Seriously it broke my heart. They know we are leaving them!

-One day we had a fire drill at school. The Chinese go all out for everything, even fire drills. Actually the beginning was a bit chaotic. Luckily my class was outside because they were having their PE, but normally we would be on the third floor. Everyone was just kind of running to get out and squeezing through the doors. They didn't even line up outside or take roll. But the funny part was after we were all outside, a group of Chinese teachers came running out of the building with one of the little kids in their arms, as if  she was unconscious or something. It was like a dramatic scene from a movie, except there wasn't actual flames behind them. Also all my kids, being the smarties that they are, kept covering their noses and mouths with their shirt. "Teacher!" They motioned for me to do the same, haha. When we entered the building though, it did smell like smoke and was gross. It was just a drill but somehow they even went all out to make it smell like it would if there was an actual fire.

-Debby and Tim are the cutest things! I think Debby has a crush on Tim. The past couple days they have been together a lot, Debby looking at Tim with this cute smile on her face and giggling. And today Tim came up to Debby after class and said in a really eager voice "Hi" and she giggled and said "Hi" and they were just so cute and started holding hands for a few minutes. They also hug all the time lately, put their arms around each other. So. CUTE. For the record this is more significant because both Debby and Tim are the "oddballs" in class. Tim just can't speak English, whenever he tries to speak it comes out slurred and the kids make fun of him for how he talks and for getting in trouble. And Debby's English is pretty good but she is just really quiet, and a little weird, and the kids make fun of her too. One day in class my kids were saying "I don't like Debby" and "I don't like Tim" and it made me really sad! Kids can be cruel.

- This kid Aaron totally has a little teacher's crush on teacher Carina. It is kind of funny haha.

-One time we were lining up to go outside and Jim and Kris were next to each other in line. Next thing I know they are making kissy faces at each other teasing, and before you know it those lips touched. I just looked at the Chinese teachers and we were laughing. 
Kris

"Teacher I'm gonna tickle you!!"

-One day in class for my lesson I taught them to make the origami called "monkey climbs a mountain". It actually went well, the kids were able to mostly figure it out. And Jim somehow knew the next step before I even said it- because he is so smart! Anyways the "monkey" ends up being this tiny paper triangle.  The next week in class one day I bring out my bag of supplies. It is a clear bag so you can see everything in it. Suddenly Jim starts pointing to my bag saying "Teacher, monkey!!" And first I laughed looking at the objects in my bag saying "No that isn't a monkey, you're so silly Jim." But he kept repeating it so he seemed pretty serious that there was a monkey in my bag...then I see that tiny little piece of paper. The triangle that we called our "monkey" from the origami lesson. I was just shocked that he saw that tiny paper in a bag full of many objects, and that he remembered it from our previous lesson and how it was a "monkey". Sometimes I really forget how smart these kids are. 

-We have the coolest conversations in the mornings with our friend Allen who drives us to school. We've had conversations on the importance of music, how to sing, psychology of leaders, environmental protection, taking care of old folks, qualities we want in a husband and marriage, philosophy, creativity, united states presidents, and much more. An interesting thing about Allen is he is communist, and works for the government. This week he is giving a speech to his 500 employees. In a few weeks he is speaking at China Southern University to speak to college students about communism, and he is supposed to get them to say some sort of pledge to communism. Yeah. He is a pretty serious communist. He said something along the lines of "in capitalism only some people can be rich, but in socialism everyone can be rich and have the same things." But the thing is, Allen is a really nice guy! He is such a cool person and seems really open minded. He loves learning, he always asks us so many questions about how we do things in America, and our thoughts and opinions. Sometimes I think he knows more about our country than I do. And I think he really wants what's best. He also takes us out to dinners and pays for our dinners and taxis to get us there. 


These kids did not like the fluoride. Poor Connor gagged and threw up (he is in the top left photo)


-One day we got on the bus to go home, and it ended up being just Carina, Clara, and me. We realized we didn't have any keys to our apartments...everyone who had keys left without telling us. Then suddenly Carina said we could climb up to the balcony since that door was unlocked. Clara was super excited. She found the nearest palm tree, and after a few climbs declared that she was stuck. Then Carina decided to give it a try. Just then a neighborhood security guard rode by on his scooter. We tried playing charades to tell him we didn't have a key, but then called Rachel to help translate for us. The security guard thought it was pretty funny though. In the end we didn't get a key so we went on am adventure to the grocery store until the others got back


More adorable photos of my children

 

This is the cutest picture of Judy! (she is on the left)

It was Derek's birthday



Jim took a selfie!!!

















Lok is the proud owner of a Hello Kitty shirt!


Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Chinese History Lesson: Forbidden City


Saturday night we had to say goodbye to Xi’an and hop on a train to Beijing. The train was about 12 hours long but we got a sleeper train, and I literally slept the entire train ride. So it went by a breeze! Seriously sleeper trains are the best way to travel! The hard sleepers are even pretty comfy.
Once we got to Beijing we got a taxi to take us to our hostel. It dropped us off in front of a sketchy looking street and he told us we had to walk the rest of the way so we were wondering around this sketchy looking area in the early cold morning. 

This city definitely has a different feel than the south. It seems a lot colder, literally and metaphorically, and more bland. I really can’t put my finger on why it felt different, but it was just a different feel. We finally found our hostel and checked in, freshened up and made our way to Tiananmen Square. Seriously, we had a pretty good hostel location because we were about 10 minute walk to Tiananmen Square- it was just around the corner! We had to go through a lot of security the days we were in Beijing just to go on the metro- even if we didn’t want to go on the metro but needed to use the underground tunnel to cross the street- we had to go through security (it was really just putting your bag through the xray though so not hard core security). That is another thing about cities like Beijing and Xi’an- to cross the street you have to go in underground tunnels.


We walked around Tienanmen square and then went to the Forbidden City. My friend Sarah (Chinese lady who lives in my neighborhood), her son goes to a university in Bejing so he met up with us (and his friend) and they came to the Forbidden City with us. They actually have never gone to the Forbidden City even though they have been in Beijing for two years, but they at least know a lot more about Chinese history than us so they were able to tell us a *little* about what we were seeing. It also helped that they had little descriptions in English. 


Heading to Tienanmen Square with the Forbidden City in the background. Looks pretty crowded but it wasn't actually that bad

Drum tower in front of the Tienanmen Square and Forbidden City. We didn't have time to go in it,. The drums are used for telling the time

And this is what it's like *not* on National Holiday (but it was a weekend)


These two ladies were too cute to not get a picture

Jumping in Tienanmen square

We were lucky the day we went they happened to have this giant thing of flowers. Not sure why but literally the next day it wasn't there anymore. 

Me in front of the Forbidden city. Note the 9 arches on the building. Remember the number 9, it is kind of important



What do you notice in this picture?

This monk has a canon camera! That just seems a little strange to me

What's cooler than seeing Monks in front of the Forbidden City?

We were unable to go into the rooms, we could only look through the windows, but we saw the famous rooms where the Emperors would get ready, hold meetings, etc. There are hundreds of buildings and thousands of rooms in the Forbidden City but we only managed to see a few things.

The Forbidden City dates back to the 1400’s, and was where the Emperors lived during the Ming and Qing dynasties. Only the Emperor and his wives/ a few caretakers were allowed to live here. Isn’t that crazy? There is so much space! Another important feature of the Forbidden City is the yellow roofs. Apparently Yellow is the Royal color for the Emperor.  There are also lots of dragons, which is symbolic of the emperor (power and good luck). The phoenix is a symbol for the empress. And the lion is a guardian for protection.

Look at that detail!!! This is the ceiling



one of the most famous rooms- Throne for the emperor

How many pillars do you see on the top row? There are 9. 9 was kind of the special number apparently, so it occurs a lot in the architecture

These are found all over the city. They were filled with water to be used to douse fires with 

These dragons contain a spout to release water- to prevent higher areas of the city from flooding. These remind me of the gargoyles on the Notre Dame. They are different but yet are used for similar reasons (also both stone creatures). 



It was really cool to see parts of the palace with the original paint- you can tell it is really old. And then there are parts where it is restored and the paint is vibrant and pops. I like how they have some original and some renovated. 


Very vibrant paint, you can tell it is newer

This looks really old and maybe even original



Another famous room with another throne for the emperor

Dragon of course

Also found throughout the city are these incense burners

Here you can see the magic 9 occur again; there are 9 rows and 9 columns of gold knobs
The first buildings in the Forbidden city are dedicated to ceremonies, rituals, and meetings. The back rooms of the city house the emperor, his wife, and concubines. Behind that is where the Imperial Gardens are located. This is for the Emperor and the others to enjoy.

These trees were really interesting- a lot look like they have faces.





After we left the Forbidden City our two Chinese friends (Simon and Leslie) took us to a restaurant to eat- another community meal. I have to tell you, I like these community type deals. We just order a bunch of different dishes, and then you have your bowl of rice and you just pick and choose from all the dishes. So you get to try many different things. I really like it!

After that we went to an antique night market and the Silk market, ending up at a Mexican restaurant afterwards. The owner is a guy named Alex who lived in North Carolina for 20 years. He was so nice! He gave everyone 10% discount, he was really funny and told us we made him feel like home. He ended up giving us a billion of his business cards, so if anyone ever goes to Beijing…I could hook you up with a great restaurant haha. We wanted a picture with him and he says “It’s like beauty and the beast” and we were like “No you aren't a beast” and he says “No…I’m the beauty!” haha what a jokester. He was the best!


Oh and on our way looking for the night market we stopped to ask a lady for directions. She actually knew really good English so I thought Wow! We picked the right person to ask….turns out she is actually from Australia and she was just visiting her sister here. She was also really nice and she accompanied us to the night market to make sure we found the right place. 

 More artsy fartsy photos 


Funny story: I was getting up close to this cool design to take some photos, and then I saw another foreigner look at me and do the same thing. I kind of looked at him with this "are you for reals copying me" look and then he said something in another language and smiled haha. 


This ceiling was too cool to not get a picture of

This is was a pillar of a pavillion in the gardens. I really love this picture. There is so much texture, and the ages of time are shown on this photo.







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I know it is kind of cliche but I like arch pictures....you have to admit this is kind of cool



This is one of my favorites!!!!

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Hope you enjoyed this segment of my Chinese History Lessons!